We arrived in Briddhim, the small village at the start/end of the Tamang Heritage trek, intending to stay the night. This was the afternoon of March 23. All day, as we had been trekking towards the north west, groups of school aged children with their parents had been walking in the opposite direction going to their villages higher in the mountains. We learned that Kathmandu had been closed and all children had been sent back to their homes. So, we were not surprised to hear, the morning of March 24, that Nepal had been locked down, with the army coming to check our papers and informing us that we could not go anywhere.
So began our nine day stay in a small Tamang village in the north of Nepal. At first the army told us we had to stay on the guest house grounds and must go inside of our rooms whenever we saw other people, but after a few days this rule was relaxed and we were allowed to walk from one end of the village to the other. A lot of locals came to visit the owner and his wife and at first these guests all wore face masks, but because the owner was well liked and respected he convinced the villagers that we were safe to stay so the locals soon came to visit without the masks. We later heard stories of other travellers that had been told to leave villages and re-locate to a tent on the edge of town because locals had heard on the radio that foreigners had brought the virus, but many of these travellers had been living in Nepal for months.
Our accommodation (the Potala Guesthouse) was like the teahouses we stayed in on the Langtang part of our trek. The guest rooms were in a long oblong building and each room had an attached bathroom with a squat toilet. Located at one end of this building was the communal shower room. After the sun hit the roof of the building there was endless solar heated hot water, but this hot water was only used for bathing and washing clothes, the concept of washing dishes in hot water and soap had not yet arrived. We ate in a different building from the sleeping quarters, in large room with a wood stove, and the
kitchen was in a wing of this building, out of a door; all of the food had to be carried through the cold outside air. Daytime temperatures were warm enough for shorts, but mornings and evenings were cold. Even though the wood stove was lit every night around 6 P.M. the dining room never really got warm, so in the mornings and evenings we ate, and sat around, in our puffy ski jackets, often wearing hats as well.
There was not a whole lot for us to do; meals were selected from a menu and we never
had to help with the washing up. Nevertheless days started at 0700 with a breakfast of tea and oatmeal with honey, or if you did not like oatmeal you could have an omelette, boiled eggs, pancakes, or chapatis with cheese (almost a grilled cheese sandwich). Lunch and dinner were pretty much the same, there was only one menu. A favourite of ours was the pizza, but there were also Momos (Tibetan dumplings), chow mein, various soups, fried rice, spaghetti with tomato sauce and, another favourite, fried potatoes with onions and greens. The food was prepared on a wood fired clay stove, all of it was very tasty and it was never burned, despite being cooked on an open flame.
After breakfast was over we would read books, try to connect to the sketchy internet to hear ne
ws from the outside world, wash laundry by hand, play card games and go for a walk. Our guest house was located on the main track at the top of the village so first we walked in one direction and then, at the prayer flags by the funeral pyre, we would turn back, walk past our guesthouse towards the gompa and then down the hill to the creek. Despite walking this same route day after day, sometimes twice a day, we never got tired of the mountain views. While walking we were given the opportunity to observe life in a typical village: tilling tiny fields with an ox team, planting potatoes, herding cows, winnowing grain, collecting grass for animal feed, weaving on looms, and cutting firewood. One day we walked through the narrow village streets below our guesthouse, but the locals seemed uncomfortable with us there, so we only did that once.
Most days after lunch GG would help the owner build a rock wall to make a terraced garden. The guesthouse had a small apple orchard by the main track, down a wide flight of stone steps, but about 1/4 of the orchard was unusable because of the large boulders buried in the soil. The afternoon project was to smash these boulders into smaller pieces and then use the pieces to construct a wall so that more trees could be planted in the orchard and vegetables could be planted in the new terrace bed, close to the kitchen. GG
put on his hiking boots for the task of swinging the sledgehammer and heaving the rocks into place, the others wore flip flops. Breaking up the metamorphic boulders was not easy, and the language difference made verbal communication difficult, but there was a lot of laughter. By the end of our nine day stay the wall was almost complete and the owner seemed incredibly grateful (translated via our guide "you can come anytime and stay with us for free"). It was such a small thing to do, and it helped GG pass the time, but this act of helping seemed to make GG an honorary member of their family.
On March 31, LE's birthday, the hosts surprised her with a birthday lunch and an evening party. LE should have suspected something when she saw the dead chicken being carried into the kitchen in the morning because everything on the menu was vegetarian, but the surprise lunch was a delicious chicken curry. Dinner was two of our favourites, chow mein and fried potatoes (which we shared) and once dinner was over the party began. The teenage son plugged in his ghetto blaster and played a Happy Birthday song (not a tune we recognized) and a cake with four large candles was brought in. Baking a cake on an open flame is tricky and getting
cake ingredients in a small village probably even trickier, but it was perfect: fluffy, tasty, and even had a frosting. After
eating cake LE was presented with small gifts of local handicrafts, tangible memories of a once-in-a-lifetime birthday. We will be able to recall this unique event for years to come. It was a wonderful way to end our nine day stay in Briddhim.